Glad you don’t design anything where people can get hurt.
The force in a backpack is proportional to the surface area. It is not a constant force. As such the bigger the surface area, the bigger the force. This is because the force is transmitting through the pack and any item inside presents a surface, where that item isn’t the contents pass to the side and present the force somewhere else. Imagine say 3 people pushing against a wall. Imagine you put 1 battery under the hand of 1 of the persons pushing. That 1 battery would feel the same force if that 1 person pushes or all 3 people push because its not able to experience the force of 3.
The strongest shapes are circular like spheres or tubes because they contain the most strength material per unit area.
You have torsion effects also. So take say a tube and try to twist it. Take say an oblong and try to twist it. The oblong has more distance between the forces so the moment is higher, this leads to more force at the center of the rotation.
The most circular like of the batteries with high mah/weight and mah/volume are the Minicore 5000, then the Minicore 10000.
You then have the effect of if the item is dropped. Here the force of impact is proportional to mass, so heavier items hit on a corner with a force more for heavier items. Heavier batteries will hit with a greater force. The thickness of the materials need to proportional to mass for the item to have the same strength per unit weight, but they tend to not, its similar thickness material making larger batteries more likely to damage when dropped. Inside a backpack its not the weight of the battery but of the backpack, then see my 1st point above.
Then you have that the force is not constant through a backpack, the item which is facing down at impact has the force of weight of all the items above if, the item at the top (opposite of impact) has only its own weight pressing in. Hence you’d be better putting 2 or 3 batteries at different sides (left/right say) of the pack so a fall is unlikely to damage both batteries.
So you want 2 or 3 smaller tube like or less-wide spread around your pack more than 1 big flat battery.
Your point is valid in other contexts, but not this one. Say in the 3 people pushing example, if they pushed a plate which was placed over the battery then all 3 people can push on the battery. That would be for example under a foot where a tube would experience the same force as a flat battery.