Oh god no.
How unsociable, would that be. Sat next to my fiancée, not talking, but listening to headphones instead.
I only use headphones when I'm out by myself, going to hospital appointments, when Jane isn't able to join me. I do it to pass the time, that's why I love EDM so much. A 2hr mix of timeless music, as no gaps, so no song counting to see how long it's been.
I can't stand ear/headphones otherwise. The isolation, hot sweaty sore ears. Not unless I have to.
As for the neighbours... Fkem. They're quick enough with the bang bang of music or just running around, or whatever they do. If now and again, I create a little noise.... Tough, lol